Swizz Beatz is caught on tape speaking about divorce to singer Mashonda. His logic is that one person, Alicia Keys, can’t destroy ten years of marriage. Ummm, yes they can if they’re cheating with your husband. Why bring this up, unless you feel some kind of guilt or shame? Swizz Beatz is just as bad as Mashonda. You won Swizz, let it go…
There is a lot he said/she said. My question is, if Swizz Beatz wasn’t cheating, why did Mashonda feel the need to go through his phone. Why were people in industry already talking a bout it and it turned out to be true? Women go through phones, when they feel you’re not on the up and up, not to set you up. I’m sorry, but his story sounds like he’s running game. Why didn’t he just leave before he got caught, no what I’m saying…
Now that Swizz Beatz has Alicia Keys, Mashonda is now a “scram”. Wow. I was trying to be positive and give him the benefit of the doubt.
Speaking of relationship, When Dreamin’ Become A Nightmare.
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Lena
Comment made on 03/11/2010 @ 14:01
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I believe in any relationship that no outside person can cause the breakup or the divorce. The breakup or divorce is caused by that person allowing an outside person to interfere with their marriage or relationship. I don’t blame Alicia at all, but there are 3 sides to the story and sometimes you never get the truth.
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MrsGrapevine Reply:
March 11th, 2010 at 15:06
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@Lena,
An outside person isn’t outside if someone brings them in. At some point Swizz Beatz brought her in.
If he would have handled his business and said this isn’t working, I’m out. Then there wouldn’t be a debate.
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darnell patterson Reply:
May 24th, 2010 at 07:32
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@MrsGrapevine, sounds like the typical Dwayne Wade and his wifes situation, some of the women never got their own life outside of their husbands careers, and if they have all day to look for whats not working in their relationship/marriage due to their own insecutities ; this can be frustrating and weighs on any marriage. If any woman trys to say i am cheating and i am not do i prove it to her? In which way? and do i repeatedly want to argue over a lie? So if this women doesnt get a life and stop this assault on my character most men will just pick up and go because its draining mentally, spiritually and emotionally to be accused when you’ve done nothing wrong. Subsequently, this is what happens when u push someone away with your insecurities ,lies, and mischief; He been dealing with the checkin of his phone for years- its just time these women get a life; Sometimes u can complain so much for nothing when you got it so well, house,money, bills paid and still find Sh*%$ to find wrong and he got pushed into the arms of another woman tryin to escape that negativity. Damn telling here anything, cause she already thinks like many women (u know it all) so he showed her better that teelling her. He sounds sincere and whatever way she incited and provoked a good man out- she finally got what she was looking for, so move on
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Anonymous Reply:
June 28th, 2010 at 14:50
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@Lena, yes which makes a keys and swiss both wrong..
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JaneJones
Comment made on 03/16/2010 @ 12:01
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Cheaters better watch their backs… there’s this new site called cheaterregistry.com where you can post a profile of an unfaithful ex-lover! Ladies- check it out to make sure your new man doesn’t have a history of straying..
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GeeGee
Comment made on 04/20/2010 @ 09:46
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um i don’t really have an opinion over the whole affair because it really isn’t my life or my business and no one will ever know the true story. i just wanted to clarify that he wasn’t calling his ex-wife a scram. You really missed the whole point of that convo if that is all you got from it. kbye
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MrsGrapevine
Comment made on 04/21/2010 @ 15:11
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@GeeGee,
That’s not all I got. But when use those words in comparative terms, you leave open an implicit interpretation, likening his ex-wife to a scram.
He seems to blame her for his cheating, and that
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darnell patterson Reply:
May 24th, 2010 at 07:49
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@MrsGrapevine, He was talking about petty people, nothing relating to his wife, Mrs Grapevine can u read to comprehend; he was tactful and diplomatic to use anexample; see this is what men mean when women try to find words and play on a word(scram) tryin to say he defamed her. He did no nor did he negatively characterize her. He just stated he wanted to be around people who thought like him and esteemed him as others see him. Calling him a cheater is character asssination. He also stated his wife made him take sides with his son, why didnt u channel in on that; Parenting skills may have been an issue, as well as power struggles from the wife to compromised; from that statement regarding his son one would take an [implicit interpretation] that Mashonda was playing her version of “my way or the highway” and wasnt compromising as an adult for the sake of the child. I have guys friends ask women to go to counseling and some women deny they need help or want to recycle their own crap- believe me it wasnt a cut and dry situation; Many men and women try to employ ways to save their marriage but if their is no compromise on either side somebody has to have the balls to get out due to lack of confict resolution skills, problem solving skills, and the lack threof of compromise. That momma’s knows best Sh*%t dont trump every dilemma
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Ms. Observant Reply:
July 7th, 2010 at 16:25
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@darnell patterson,
Who is this dude? Why is he so defensive for Swizz?
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Dee
Comment made on 06/02/2010 @ 08:01
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The ex wife is just hating because he upgraded a million percent. What more does the untalented heffa want? Swizz is hitting her off with guap. Move on trick. Of course all the golddigging birds are gonna condem the man but I admire him. He chose his son over some beeyotch. Hope he and Alicia are happy.
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Candice
Comment made on 06/14/2010 @ 08:08
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I feel both of them were wrong. First, Mashonda should NOT have stopped working on her career just to focus on Swizz. That’s were the problem starts. And he should NOT have asked her too. Just for the sake of their son. Once she became home bound to were all the focus is on Swizz, there would be a lot of room for resentment. I am speaking from experience. Trying to put on a happy face while your husband is doing him with his career coming across a lot of female celebrities(that’s how he met her)whom have their own thing going keeping busy; and when you do not hane that anymore and all sorts of things running through her head. Not seeing him for weeks maybe months on end. It takes a toll on ones self esteem. As for Swizz, if he did cheat during the marriage he will get his. I do not think that she tried to make him choose between her and his son when she was taking care of him when Swizz had his visits. Trying to use that as an excuse seems bogus. Those warning signs would have presented themselves earlier on in the relationship for sure. All for him to leave Mashonda for someone who has their own career. I wonder if he would ask Alicia to focus on him and their soon to be child.
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MrsGrapevine 2 Reply:
June 14th, 2010 at 14:43
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@Candice,
I don’t what happened, but it sounds like Mashonda was trying to be the woman she thought he wanted. Alicia felt justified in the relationship because she believe it to be over, and she trusted Swizz side, and saw Mashonda in negative light.
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Candice Reply:
June 14th, 2010 at 20:47
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@MrsGrapevine 2, Exactly. From my experience my ex wanted me to be there for him and his career. I put mines on the back burner only to find out that he was cheating on me. Mind you we had a young child, soon to be married. Long story short, I left and he went and married the jumpoff, had another kid and now going through a divorce. How ironic. So even though Alicia felt justified it was’nt right. She could have waitied til the divorce was officially over. But what comes around goes around. Never again will I ever put my stuff to the side for any man. I just hope Mashonda learned her lesson and I hope she heals. Both people have to take responsibility when things go sour in a relationship. Good or bad. it is easier to point the finger. No one deserves to be cheated on. There is no excuse for cheating. Period. I would just let them be and move on. It may be hard but she can do it. The way Alicia got him, is the way she will definitely lose him.
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Ms. Observant Reply:
July 7th, 2010 at 16:28
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@Candice,
I love what you contributed to this discussion Candice!
May God bless your heart. You endured a tough life situation.
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Candice Reply:
July 14th, 2010 at 10:12
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@Ms. Observant, Thanks doll. It’s a lesson learned. I am glad I went through it then than now. I am more mature now to understand nothing suprises me anymore and this story (Mashonda/Swizz/Alicia)is just a clear example of what not to do in a relationship. But people don’t take heed until it happens to them. God Bless you too.
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Candice
Comment made on 06/14/2010 @ 20:49
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Sorry for the typos.
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koko
Comment made on 07/02/2010 @ 15:45
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Based off all that Mashonda has said and all that Swizz has said and then add the tax debt they collected together over the years, one thing is obvious- they had some deep issues to say the least. I guess every couple does but they didn’t make it through theirs.
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MrsGrapevine 2 Reply:
July 3rd, 2010 at 11:32
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@koko,
Alicia Keys timing just may have been unfortunate for Mashonda and their issues. It would have been nice if they could have reconcile things before Swizz moved on.
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Cat
Comment made on 08/11/2010 @ 21:18
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Good luck with the new guy he’s no much better.
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