I have a theory since Jacque Reid and Chili are pushing 40′s and still can’t find a man to meet their standards, then perhaps they should date each other. I learned early in life in a seminar that the type of men you date or attract says a lot more about you than it does about them. If you attract men that are dogs perhaps it’s because you’re a dog house. Women who are looking for these impossible standards need to check their own baggage at the door, and figure out why they don’t have the man of their dreams. Sometimes it’s as easy as closing your legs, and sometimes it’s as easy as knowing your own weakness.
Check out this video for Chili’s new reality series, “What Chili Wants”. It’s almost upsetting to me, why women can’t find good men, when the good ones are standing right next to them:
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Josef Hudson
Comment made on 03/04/2010 @ 15:23
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…can the church say “Aman”!
-silence-
Well, “Aman, walls and lights.”
I totally agree! There’s no shortage of “good men”, or even “good Black men,” as many would lead you to believe.
“That which is like unto itself is drawn” – the Law of Attraction
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MrsGrapevine Reply:
March 5th, 2010 at 07:47
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@Josef Hudson,
Girl, we have had this conversation and similar conversations before.
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NAME WITH HOLD
Comment made on 03/04/2010 @ 17:20
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CHILLI NEED TO GO BACK WITH USHER SHE DONT NEED OTHER MEN JUST USHER ANYWAY THEY ARE SEEING EACH OTHER SO THIS SHOW WILL BE CANCEAL SOON.
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That Girl U.N Reply:
March 5th, 2010 at 07:41
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@NAME WITH HOLD,
Usher will just cheat on her, again.
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MrsGrapevine Reply:
March 5th, 2010 at 07:45
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@That Girl U.N,
I agree.
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vanessa
Comment made on 03/05/2010 @ 02:10
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anyone who doesn’t know that there is a serious shortage of bread winning black males is a fool
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MrsGrapevine Reply:
March 5th, 2010 at 07:44
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@vanessa,
I must be a married fool, along with all my married fool friends.
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Val
Comment made on 03/05/2010 @ 22:28
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Only BET could turn a legitimate journalist into a reality TV has-been. I feel bad for Jacque.
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vanessa
Comment made on 03/06/2010 @ 00:47
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Good 4 u grapevine, but in order to give advice in the entire UNITED STATES you have to look outside your limited circle and learn the stats. Almost every black woman I know is looking or gave up looking.
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MrsGrapevine Reply:
March 6th, 2010 at 11:11
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@vanessa,
I’m not giving advice to the whole United States, I’m giving advice to the black women that are like Chili and Jacque Reid. Both, on their reality shows have given up potentially great men, in search of things on a list.
Don’t shop for a man by a list, he’s not a car. Take the time get to know a person for who or what he is, and then determine his quality.
I don’t know if you watched “Let’s Talk About Pep”, but if you have, you’d know exactly what I’m talking about.
The comment wasn’t for all women or all women in the states. It was for certain type of black women.
Lastly, if there are enough men to keep producing babies out of wedlock, then there are probably enough to marry.
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tameka
Comment made on 03/06/2010 @ 11:01
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as i said before usher will be with chilli and he would not cheat on her agian. you see i will be right. am always right on these storey.
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MrsGrapevine Reply:
March 6th, 2010 at 11:13
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@tameka,
You can’t possibly predict what Usher’s body parts will do.
Also, check my history, I have been right before, too.
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tameka
Comment made on 03/06/2010 @ 11:04
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and no i am not temeka usher ex you guys know that temeka cant stead chilli azzzzzzzzzzz becouse chilli will kick her azzzzzzzzzzzz.
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MrsGrapevine Reply:
March 6th, 2010 at 11:14
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@tameka,
They can get back together, but I don’t have stock in Usher ability to stay committed.
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NAME WITH HOLD
Comment made on 03/07/2010 @ 14:06
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THEY ARE BACK TOGETHER JUST SAW THEM YEAH MEN.
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MrsGrapevine 2 Reply:
March 7th, 2010 at 14:21
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@NAME WITH HOLD,
The question wasn’t if Usher and Chili will get together, again. It’s a question of Usher’s fidelity, and I don’t think he will be faithful for the long term.
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Francena
Comment made on 04/06/2010 @ 18:35
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I am married, but being married does not make me blind to the fact that there IS a severe shortage of employed black men who date black women. No one should have to settle for sloppiness just to say they have a man.
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