This is the reason I don’t jump on the bandwagon for Team Rihanna or Team Chris Brown. This situation has grown so out of control that everyone has a personal opinion, and none of them were in the car that night or in that relationship. I was told that the blogs were driving this feud, but honestly America is driving this feud. I have never seen people so invested into a situation. Women who have been abused have projected their abuser on to Chris Brown. Men who have been abused or just plain ignorant, have project some inconceivable myths onto Rihanna, as if she somehow deserved it.  So when I saw this video at TMZ of a woman yelling at Chris Brown like she’s actually going to do something to him, it just makes me SMH! Honestly, are you going to use violence to teach Chris Brown that violence is wrong. Something tells me that just doesn’t work…