Sorry, Alicia Keys but your private life just keeps coming into my inbox and onto my twitter page. I have never defended Alicia Keys actions, but I did give her the benefit of the doubt. Now, YBF has exclusive pictures of Alicia Keys and Swizz Beats kissing back in January of 2008, which is quite strange considering rumors were flying around that the two were seen kissing at the Museum of Art in NYC before Mashonda and Swizz Beats split. I see why celebrities want to keep their private lives private. Click here to read more…

[Source: YBF]
When I was single, I had the mindset that you can’t make a man cheat, and if a man cheats it has nothing to do with the mistress. Now that I am married, I now see that women are a lot more sneaky than perhaps I thought before, and that anyone that is knowingly dating a married man, needs to fall back, until the ink dries.
If a man really loves you, why is it so hard for him to get a divorce and be with you? Don’t let him blame it on the kids because the kids usually know what’s up. When has enough time passed before you begin to realize you’re being played just like his wife? I don’t know if the statistic is true, but only 3% of the married men who cheat on their wives actually marry their mistress? Those that marry their mistress have high divorce rates, and I wonder why.

[Photo Credit: Black Celebrity Kids]








Juicy Carter
Comment made on 10/30/2009 @ 5:17 PM
girl, my ex husband cheated and married the girl 7 months after our divorce and he tells me how he cheats on her now but she doesnt believe it. so ill wait for Karma to kick in so she can see how much of a dumb *ss she really is and him too lol
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MrsGrapevine
Comment made on 10/30/2009 @ 5:25 PM
That doesn’t make any sense, but she is getting what she wanted so bad, the man…and his extracurricular activities…
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don
Comment made on 10/31/2009 @ 10:13 AM
Wow @ how much Swizz’s son resembles his father. I can’t really comment on the affair between Swizz beats and Alicia Keys, cause I’ve never been married, but I too have done the This Over Here, That Over That thing.
It’s not fair, I will say that.
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Joy
Comment made on 10/31/2009 @ 2:01 PM
I can’t understand why people are sooo stuck on how this relationship started. It is pretty obvious that the man is in love with Alicia and not his wife. So now what? Relationships are transitioning everyday. I hope that they all find the love and happiness that they desire.
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MrsGrapevine Reply:
November 2nd, 2009 at 8:06 AM
@ Joy:
You really can’t understand why people are stuck on the fact that Alicia Keys is dating a married man, or that Swizz Beatz cheated on his wife with Alicia Keys?
It’s all about marketing Alicia Keys as a superwoman hero good girl type to only learn that she is just like everyone else, potentially selfish and cold-hearted. It’s more of fall from grace moment. If it was Lil Kim we probably would blink twice. This is like finding out Whitney Houston did drugs…
Last because it’s marriage…
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Mya
Comment made on 11/02/2009 @ 10:08 AM
There isn’t any proof! Pictures from a cell phone don’t have dates and month. This website are looking at pictures from 2008 based on Swizz beard.–which grows everyday and a man has to shave often.
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nicolefromphilly
Comment made on 11/03/2009 @ 9:29 AM
I would like to chime in if you don’t mind..
just in general speaking the reason the other woman can’t see the harm in what she is doing because it is not her that is being hurt.
All she is seeing is the thrill of the chase, meaning to see if she can take someone else man/or husband. Once she has accomplished her goal and the other woman usually wife/girlfriend reacts out of being hurt.. Then the other woman response normally is “If she was taking care of home then he wouldn’t be with me.or If he loved why is he here. etc. etc.
Once the honeymoon faze wares off and it become just like anyother normal relations then the thrill is gone.
You’re getting where I’m going with this the other woman will never seen the pain/heartache that she cause until it happens to them and when it does I call it an aha! momment (momment of clarity) when the person begin to remember who they caused pain too and they realize the feeling doesn’t feel good at all
And this goes for the men as well (like usher I call him see if I can man) this is the type of person that goes after other men wives just to see if he can capture them ( he will get his when he trully love someone and they cause him the same pain he caused someone else)
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greencup23
Comment made on 11/10/2009 @ 10:13 PM
I’m sorry this happen to her, but I believe no one can steal a man from you. He was not forced nor was a gun put to his head. He is the one that is married, he said the vows “to death due us part”, not her. I’m not saying women don’t play there part but he is the one who holds the key not her(the mistress). As far as Alicia is concerned no one should be surprised these stars are not “God” and we should look at them accordingly.
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